Hey witches, it’s been a fairly long minute but the universe has been taking me on quite a ride. I’m so excited to be able to update you on this glorious full moon to speak of change, manifestation, abundance, and.... fucking shadow work to get there.
Over the last couple of months I’ve been doing hard work. For my business, my relationships, my inner child, and a myriad of other things. It’s been wild. It’s been upsetting. It’s been dark. But it’s also been rewarding.
Let’s talk about the toxic ass bullshit also known as “love and light”. You’ve heard it if you’re within spitting distance of the “healing” *eyeroll* community and you’re probably even guilty of falling into this mindset (I know I am). It’s ok. It’s more than ok. Just like any addiction, we fall into it because it feels good. It allows us to blindfold ourselves from our faults, our toxic traits, bad habits, and comfortable learned behavior that we are too afraid to change. There are so many inspirational quotes I can give you about shining your light on your darkness, but I don’t think I would be able to hold down this iced coffee I’m sipping on.
Don’t be afraid to get dark. Get dirty. Be a bitch. Lash out. Scream at the moon. Piss in a jar on your ex.
DO be afraid of continuing your life “as is” after. You want change? You have to be it. You can’t change the folks around you, your job, your situation, your financial picture, etc with thoughts of love and light and an occasional break down. Get help. Be help. Accept help. And fucking listen to your body when it wants to burst forth and have that fucking melt down. As women we give ourselves these guidelines that we have to be nurturing to those around us, sometimes though, that evil queen/witch/sea monster.... is actually the good guy.